It’s MS Awareness Week, time for my annual MS psa. As many of you know, my Bookman was diagnosed with MS a little over three years ago. Aside from his initial exacerbation that took us to the doctor in the first place (double vision in one eye), he has had no relapses. For this we are blessed.
However, no relapse does not mean that he feels as though there is nothing wrong. He has clonus in his right ankle which sometimes causes him to stumble because he can’t pick up his foot. This past year he has also been coping with some major fatigue issues. He is very often tired and needs extra rest to recover his energy. Sometimes an hour or two is not enough. Sometimes he needs a whole day or two of not doing much of anything to recover from a regular work week or sustained exertion. Even then, he does not feel completely rested.
Nonetheless, he walks five + miles a day five days a week compliments of his job at the airport where his bookstores are spread out seemingly at the ends of the earth. And we continue to take ballroom dance lessons twice a month.
MS research has given us hope this year that maybe someday there will be, if not a cure, a way to stop the disease from progressing. Stem cell research has produced some possibilities and there has also been success in the lab with a “vaccination” that actually reverses the damage MS does to myelin (the protective layer around nerve cells that MS destroys).
Currently in the United States, there are about 400,000 people with multiple sclerosis and about 200 more are diagnosed each week. Worldwide, MS affects about 2.5 million people. One of the most difficult things about MS, along with its unpredictability, is that very often people with MS don’t look sick. If you met my Bookman you would never know he had a potentially debilitating chronic disease. And because the nature of the disease is a cycle of relapse and remission, someone who is walking with a cane today might be able to walk unaided with only a slight limp next week and vice versa. Both the unpredictability and “invisibility” of the disease make it difficult for employers, family, friends, and government policy makers to understand.
I always thought it was curious that the MS Society chose walks and bike rides as ways to raise awareness and contributions. But over the past few months one of their new tag lines, “Move It,” has begun to make sense. MS affects a person’s mobility. When a person loses mobility her ability to do the things she used to do is affected. By encouraging us to “move it” in walks and bike rides we are being asked to use our mobility to help find a cure for an immobilizing disease.
My Bookman started volunteering a few weeks ago for our local MS Society chapter; a couple hours in the morning on Fridays when they have work for him to do. He loves it. He says their office is so calming and it is nice to be around people who understand how he feels and what he is going through. He feels like he is making a difference for himself and for others.
We are working to make a mark against MS. If you feel so inclined, please “move it” and make mark of your own. To learn more about MS, click on the graphic at the beginning of this post.
This is an important post, for which many thanks. All good wishes to you both.
Thanks for this. I’m so glad your Bookman continues to do well, but I know how hard the fatigue can be..
Thanks for this post Stefanie! “Move it” is a great slogan.
MS is something I’ve been aware of, but not known much about. Thanks for sharing your Bookman’s experiences. I hope he continues to be relatively problem free! It sounds like he has a great advocate in you, which is wonderful!
My elementary school’s MS read-a-thon was what got me into reading way back when. I wonder if they do those anymore. I’ll check out the link.
I’m sorry to hear the Bookman is having trouble with fatigue. The word doesn’t sound like much to most people but it can be profoundly disabling. And I know how awkward it can be having an invisible disability. I always wonder what people are thinking when I park in a disabled spot (which I only do when absolutely necessary) and get out of my car on my feet, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Have you thought about a scooter for the airport? I sat in one once and holy cow are they ever comfortable! Why walk when you can ride? ;D
My friend with MS has gone downhill very badly in the past couple of years, and along with the mobility issues and severe fatigue it seems to have made her more angry and aggressive, and much more paranoid. Even in her bad state, the goat serum drug can help her, but it’s only available privately and costs too much. I have everything crossed that a new solution, or at least some relief from some of the symptoms, might be found.
My warmest wishes to your bookman – long may his relatively good health continue.
thanks for posting this. my dear MIL has MS and it’s hard to watch her struggle. sometimes the meds are so expensive it’s an outrage in itself. we do all we can to support her physically and emotionally. best wishes to you and your bookman.
Researching MS, I was very struck by how it tends to hit people in the prime of their life, and very inexplicably as well. Also the fact that most cases tend to have a cycle of good days and bad days seems like it would be very frustrating.
Because of this I got very into the MS150 rides for awhile. They are a fun way to get exercise and raise funds and awareness.
I hope that Your Bookman has an easy time of it.
Thank you for this important reminder. You and your Bookman are also blessed to have each other. Thoughts and prayers to you both.
I’m very glad that your husband is doing well, even if there are still difficult symptoms. I like the idea of the “Move It” campaign too — it draws attention to what a wonderful thing it is to be able to move and that we should work to make it possible for as many people as we can.
I’m sorry to hear about your Bookman’s MS-related troubles, but also glad to hear he’s doing relatively well. The variable nature of the disease seems like it makes it difficult to adjust to any given state (for it might change the next day, week, month, etc. — you never know).
How cool that he’s volunteering!
Cornflower, and thank you for your kind good wishes.
Daphne, I know you can relate in many respects. Thanks for the good wishes.
Iliana, thank you!
Danielle, thank you for you kind words and wishes.
Shelley, a read-a-thon, huh? That is cool. I don’t know if they do those anymore.
Litlove, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. You know I wonder about her now and then and hope she is doing well. But it sounds like she isn’t and it is a shame she can’t get the medicine that works for her because of the expense. We are lucky to have decent insurance that covers my husbands drugs, otherwise we would be hard pressed to pay for them because they are so expensive. My best to your friend. I’ll send out healing thoughts to her.
Erica, I hope your mother-in-law is doing ok. I know the meds are very expensive which is an outrage as you say. It sounds like she has lots of loving support which makes a huge difference. I wish her well. And thank you for your good wishes.
Bikkuri, I hope to go on one of the long rides one day. I had better get to pedaling! It is a very frustrating disease, but then any chronic illness is frustrating. Thank you for you good wishes!
Grad, you are so kind. Thank you.
Dorothy, thank you. You sum up the Move It campaign so well I should have had you write the post for me!
wil, thank you for your kindness. It is cool that he is volunteering. It has lifted his spirits immeasurably.