Doug Bouey knows fracture repair. A successful orthopedic surgeon, he not only has repaired bones in his patients’ bodies but also restored relationships among family members and co-workers. In this insightful book, he offers principles for repairing fractures in every kind of relationship: with a spouse or partner, children, parents, friends, and colleagues. Bouey’s approach is based on the understanding that most fractures are caused by outbursts of emotion – blameful words or hurtful actions that inflict lasting damage to our ability to trust others and be trusting ourselves. To help us overcome these damaging episodes and restore fractured relationships we must first understand what drove the outburst and then take specific steps to address the emotional issues underlying it. Drawing on case studies from his own experience as well as scientific research into human behavior, Bouey provides detailed guidance for overcoming anger, bitterness, fearfulness…and all the other destructive emotions that can lead to broken relationships. He also shows how we can learn new ways of interacting positively with those around us – EVEN IF THEY HAVE NOT CHANGED THEIR BEHAVIOR ALREADY! Fixing Fractures does more than just offer hope; it provides real solutions for healing some of life’s most difficult wounds.
For who is this book for ?
This book is for people who have relationships that are fractured and need repairing. It offers principles and guidance on how to overcome the emotional damage that has been inflicted, based on case studies and scientific research into human behavior.
Pros :
- Offers hope and real solutions for healing difficult wounds
- Based on the understanding that most fractures are caused by outbursts of emotion
- Drawing on case studies from his own experience
Cons :
- The author’s approach might be too clinical for some readers.
- The book does not offer any real solutions for healing relationships that have already been irrevocably damaged.
- The writing style may be too dense and academic for some readers
Learn more about the author
Douglas R. Bouey, MD, is a successful orthopedic surgeon and author of the insightful book Fixing Fractures: Restoring Shattered Relationships in Business and in Life. Drawing on case studies from his own experience as well as scientific research into human behavior, Dr. Bouey provides detailed guidance for overcoming anger, bitterness, fearfulness…and all the other destructive emotions that can lead to broken relationships. He also shows how we can learn new ways of interacting positively with those around us – EVEN IF THEY HAVE NOT CHANGED THEIR BEHAVIOR ALREADY! In addition to his work as an author and surgeon, Dr. Douglas R.Bouey volunteers for numerous local charity organizations.
Reader Reviews
“I really like this book because it is very relatable. Dr. Bouey provides clear examples illustrating how fractures can occur in any type of relationship, and offers practical advice for restoring them.”
“This is an excellent book on how to repair broken relationships. It is filled with very helpful insights and advice based on the author’s own experience as a surgeon and his research into human behavior. I highly recommend it!”
“Doug Bouey has written a compelling book on the healing of fractured relationships. His orthopedic surgical experience provides a clear and concise pathway for repairing damage done to our essential human connections. This is not only a valuable resource for individuals, but also offers professionals insight into working with people in distress.”
“Doug Bouey has written a much-needed book on how to repair broken relationships. His approach is based on the understanding that most fractures are caused by outbursts of emotion – blameful words or hurtful actions that inflict lasting damage to our ability to trust others and be trusting ourselves. He provides detailed guidance for overcoming anger, bitterness, fearfulness…and all the other destructive emotions that can lead to broken relationships.”
